Sex...
I had an interesting conversation with one of my female friends last night and she was telling about her experiences during her just finished freshman year of college and she hinted that 'all men' that are enrolled in college expect sex from females without even attempting getting to know a female first..and she doesn't experience it that way when she goes home which is why she can't wait to go back home. Ofcourse I attempted to take the male side of the situation and say its not true.. but to no avail, she had a better point to every good point I made. I told her its society's fault and I slept on the conversation and said to myself this morning that while it is wrong for every dude to want sex initially, A LOT of females allow it and ofcourse if it didn't work for anybody then nobody would do it. I have completed three years of college and have noticed the changed mentality of myself and as well as my peers. So i have come to this fact..
College has a reputation of freedom, parties, and sex and while that it is the case the main reason that college exists is to gain knowledge. Whether it be about your major, about people in life or just about the opposite sex. Its really amazing.. if women had the Efficacy which is the capacity to produce an effect. Then, most of the time women would not have to stand for the complete and utter nonsense that they go through now-in-days. It comes down to 'Self-efficacy' V.S. 'Social Constraints' which is what you want and not caring what others thought or doing what society allows you to do. Women should realize the power that has been gained within the last couple of centuries.. We almost had a female presidential candidate as well as a female vice president so most gender roles that were created years ago are being re-written. Some females I have conversations with love sex all the same as males do if not more but don't believe in having sex with the next random dude that happens to rear his head around the corner while her close friend will have a new dude on deck every other week. They will share their views with each other and tell each other who is wrong and who is right. A lifestyle is the way a person lives, acts and handles every situation. All lifestyles are different. I believe that the lines between personal identity and the everyday doings that signal a particular lifestyle become blurred in today's modern society. So if you have that friend that does things that you don't agree with (especially sexually) then let that person know immediately. You can't always change the way a person plays the game but you can give hints on how they can better their game... And I know I have had to give out a few condoms
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well...that jawn ended quite abruptly. indeed i understand her side as well as yours. and at the end of the day even if she had a rebuttal for every point you made, that does not mean you made every possible point. with that said, it is, in my opinion, a known fact that once a young girl makes up her mind about something, then that is that. you could have been completely and utterly right in all of your points but her answers may have been based upon other things then fact. for example, logic or emotion. i would have liked to have been there.
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